My youngest son decided to skip graduation exercises because, technically, he is not quite finished with his college courses... and he doesn't get too excited about such events. But since he won't have another opportunity until December to participate in the ceremony... and he will not be the least interested... I'll celebrate the day for him.
My second son's girl friend is also graduating from the same college today. She decided to participate in the festivities and we will probably stop in to congratulate her.
Despite what the ceremony may or may not mean to these young people, it means much to their parents and families and to their communities. They are no longer the "future" for us; they are now part of the contributing "present". We celebrate their achievements, but we also celebrate our roles in their achievements, too.
The caps and gowns and ornate pieces of paper are nice touches, but the real reward is that they have been tested and found able... they are prepared for their lives and to contribute to the next generation's support. It is time to commence.
