Relationships: That rushing sound is cash leaving my wallet
I don't care.
Money raisers call to get you to contribute to saving the water, orphaned children, sick children, down-and-out veterans, political candidates, peewee sports programs, marching bands, police officer associations, fire fighters associations, and on and on. Don't get me wrong; I think most of these efforts are positive. It's just that they seem endless. I do give, selectively.
I tend to favor local organizations that are hands-on. I'm not interested in going through a professional fund raiser... who knows where the money is going. "Are you a police officer?" "Well, no, but I represent them." "What's your take?" "Well a significant portion of what we raise helps police officers." "How much and how?" "A lot and we help them." "Thanks, bye."
Civic groups that are all volunteer and spend everything they raise to improve the community seem worthwhile to me. And soup kitchens... I worked in one... just one day... and I was impressed with what they do. I've given a couple of old cars to Mother Waddles Perpetual Mission. I know they only get a portion of the money... but I respect what soup kitchens do. They are basic. They feed the hungry and offer clothing to the cold. The Salvation Army gets bags of clothes each year, too.
I give money to my mother and mother-in-law. Not huge sums, but something that helps out. If I know that they need more, I'll find it. When you're retired and putting a son through college, money needs to be budgeted. So my new golf clubs can wait another few years and that 15-year-old TV is still working fine. I'll spend money on those in my family who need it.
Taxes... now that's where a big chunk of my change goes. A lot of where it goes seems important. Repairing poorly built highways, building state-of-the-art administrative buildings for officials, funding fact-finding trips, paying for those newsletters from my representative who somehow never seems to say anything comprehensible... all important stuff, I'm sure.
I think the government doesn't like the idea of people giving things to charities, though. They think it is okay to give cash, but not tangible things that can become cash, so they are cutting the tax deductions for things like cars given to charities. Well, the government does know best how to use my money.
I'm sure you can probably think of some other important causes for my money, but, you know, I just don't care.
Well, I do... but I can't.