That's Dysfunctional!
What's truth? What's right? Read earlier posts.
Let's move away from the loaded questions. In a world of competing "truths" and conflicting "rights", we can either give up or look elsewhere. I choose the latter.
As individuals, we are born with the instinct to survive, to acquire, and to reproduce. After that, the wide variety of "truth" and (what is) "right" can create a world of confusion for us. Therefore, as individuals, we are forced to make choices that define and confine us within the context of our environment and those that surround us (groups). We are trained and we question our training. We are told the truth and we discover our own truths. We go with the group or against the group. We choose and we live with the choices.
Okay, that's pretty self-evident. So what?
Very early on, I raised the issue of complexity. Nothing is ever as simple as it first seems. Choices are never as clear-cut as we describe. There is a range of consequences to our choices from trivial to catastrophic for us as individuals. The same can be said for groups among other groups. So I would like to use the terms functional and dysfunctional to describe the outcomes of our choices. (do a Google search on dysfunctional if you want to do a lot of reading).
For our purposes, I choose to define "dysfunctional" as that which produces unintended, negative results.
Examples of dysfunctional choices:
- scratching the side of your head with a loaded gun... safety off, finger on trigger
- learning to fly by jumping naked off a cliff
- feeding an alligator by holding a steak in your hand
That's where this blog is heading... a discussion of common sense or nonsense... truth? right? forgetaboutit!
Next... how we get to be dysfunctional.